Since my wife started her new job she turns me down for sex | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE my wife started her new job, she has decided I’m too boring for her.

She has gone off sex and seems to be having some sort of mid-life crisis.

We’ve been married for 11 years, and have two lovely sons, a nice house and no financial worries. I’m 40 and she’s 41.

Life was sweet until she got a new job, her first since giving up work to look after the children for five years.

Suddenly, she decided that I wasn’t fun to be around any more, and that our life together is boring.

That was bad enough, but when I tried to initiate sex, she turned me down flat. She didn’t even want to kiss or hug me.

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I asked if she was having an affair and she told me to stop being ridiculous. But it’s been weeks now, and she still hasn’t wanted to get intimate.

Her colleagues are younger and mostly single, with no kids. Our home life must seem dull in comparison. But she always seemed happy before. What can I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Starting her new job has made your wife reassess her life and compare herself to her colleagues.

But if she’s not happy, she needs to talk to you so you can work things out together.

Pick a moment to say you are worried and want to get closer again. Ask how you can improve your marriage, not just for your sake but for your kids.

My support pack, Looking After Your Relationship, should help you.

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